Men aren’t dogs, we see what he is offering and assume that in some way we can change him. He’s not your average skirt, stop trying to alter him to fit your size. He’s okay for someone but maybe not for you. You can’t alter the woman either, she’s telling you exactly who she is and what she needs. It’s really up to her to not force you to meet it, when she can clearly see that you can’t. Set the boundaries or respect them. Enjoy the journey. Don’t judge, focus on your own path. Don’t you think if he loved the picture he’d buy the frame?